Comments on: Nonchalant http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/ Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Immigrant. Cancer Survivor. Fri, 18 May 2012 15:35:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: The Lioness http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-386 The Lioness Tue, 09 Aug 2005 06:08:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-386 Since you ask... Life is too short. What, you need this? No. You need people who will make the effort. I say Godpseed. Since you ask… Life is too short. What, you need this? No. You need people who will make the effort. I say Godpseed.

]]> By: PJ http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-385 PJ Mon, 18 Jul 2005 08:14:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-385 I don't think you're being selfish at all. Relationships are for both/all participants. If you feel you're giving all, but not getting anything in return then by all means you are well right to send the obligatory congrats and be done with it. No need to expend your precious energy, esp. with the baby coming soon, on a friendship that is mostly one-sided. I don’t think you’re being selfish at all.

Relationships are for both/all participants. If you feel you’re giving all, but not getting anything in return then by all means you are well right to send the obligatory congrats and be done with it. No need to expend your precious energy, esp. with the baby coming soon, on a friendship that is mostly one-sided.

]]> By: Louise http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-384 Louise Sun, 17 Jul 2005 15:22:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2005/07/17/nonchalant/#comment-384 I also sent out a mass email telling people of my diagnosis, and I also had people who were less than responsive (one not contacting me at all for almost 5 months, by which point I was almost finished treatment). And when some of these people contact me now, I don't really care. Because really? When I needed them? They weren't there. And if they didn't have time for me when I needed it, I don't feel a need to make time for them now. I also sent out a mass email telling people of my diagnosis, and I also had people who were less than responsive (one not contacting me at all for almost 5 months, by which point I was almost finished treatment). And when some of these people contact me now, I don’t really care. Because really? When I needed them? They weren’t there. And if they didn’t have time for me when I needed it, I don’t feel a need to make time for them now.

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