Comments on: Blahblah. More blahblahblah. Some people! http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/ Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Immigrant. Cancer Survivor. Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:53:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Anonymous http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-76 Anonymous Sat, 15 Jan 2005 20:54:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-76 I feel so sorry for you and all you have been through, but I can understand when somebody just tries to think positive, eg "it could have been worse". I believe finding the good in a situation is the first step towards recovery. Its not their fault that they cant read your mind and say exactly what you want to hear. Juat Another Blogger I feel so sorry for you and all you have been through, but I can understand when somebody just tries to think positive, eg “it could have been worse”. I believe finding the good in a situation is the first step towards recovery. Its not their fault that they cant read your mind and say exactly what you want to hear.

Juat Another Blogger

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-75 Anonymous Thu, 16 Dec 2004 17:23:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-75 I had a miscarriage at the 8 week mark also, a few weeks after you did, totally understand about the stupid things people say .... all I wanted was a "I'm sorry" "how are you doing?" or some kind of recognition, instead of the obvious discomfort that I caused people. But, oh well.... I think most people mean well, but are uncomfortable, and cannot find the right words to say; pregnancy loss is such a taboo in our culture (not that I'm excusing them). Lori I had a miscarriage at the 8 week mark also, a few weeks after you did, totally understand about the stupid things people say …. all I wanted was a “I’m sorry” “how are you doing?” or some kind of recognition, instead of the obvious discomfort that I caused people. But, oh well…. I think most people mean well, but are uncomfortable, and cannot find the right words to say; pregnancy loss is such a taboo in our culture (not that I’m excusing them).
Lori

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-74 Anonymous Sat, 11 Dec 2004 13:55:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/12/11/blahblah-more-blahblahblah-some-people/#comment-74 Aackkk!! I hate the stupid and insensitive platitudes that ignornant individuals feel a need to dole out!! What is it with these people??!! Geez. I'm sorry you had to listen to all of that crap! Moogielou Aackkk!! I hate the stupid and insensitive platitudes that ignornant individuals feel a need to dole out!! What is it with these people??!!

Geez. I’m sorry you had to listen to all of that crap!

Moogielou

]]>