Comments on: Heartbroken http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/ Entrepreneur. Wife. Mother. Immigrant. Cancer Survivor. Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:51:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Toni http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-18 Toni Sat, 02 Aug 2008 00:58:53 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-18 there are never any words that will help when something this senseless happens...i am so sorry for your loss...i have miscarried twice and although i am so grateful for the daughter i had inbetween them, i still think about what they would have been like, how old they would be right now, how they wouldve enriched my life...i am currently 6wks pregnant again and truly, i have never been so scared.....you will never have a worry-free pregnancy after a miscarriage and sometimes i even feel bitter that God would allow us to go thru such emotional pain for no apparent reason....i dont feel as if any lesson was learned, i dont feel it made us any stronger or better people, it just made me more cynical, jaded and protective of my only living child......i am constantly paranoid that something might happen to her and that would surely kill me.....i encourgage you to keep doing anything that makes you feel like getting up in the morning and moving forward....again, i am so sorry for you and your husband's loss....just know that you are not alone and there are couples that feel the despare that you are feeling now....i will pray for you and for your emotional healing...i ask that you please do the same.... Toni Tyler Pocahontas, AR there are never any words that will help when something this senseless happens…i am so sorry for your loss…i have miscarried twice and although i am so grateful for the daughter i had inbetween them, i still think about what they would have been like, how old they would be right now, how they wouldve enriched my life…i am currently 6wks pregnant again and truly, i have never been so scared…..you will never have a worry-free pregnancy after a miscarriage and sometimes i even feel bitter that God would allow us to go thru such emotional pain for no apparent reason….i dont feel as if any lesson was learned, i dont feel it made us any stronger or better people, it just made me more cynical, jaded and protective of my only living child……i am constantly paranoid that something might happen to her and that would surely kill me…..i encourgage you to keep doing anything that makes you feel like getting up in the morning and moving forward….again, i am so sorry for you and your husband’s loss….just know that you are not alone and there are couples that feel the despare that you are feeling now….i will pray for you and for your emotional healing…i ask that you please do the same….
Toni Tyler
Pocahontas, AR

]]> By: Toni http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-26 Toni Sat, 02 Aug 2008 00:58:53 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-26 there are never any words that will help when something this senseless happens...i am so sorry for your loss...i have miscarried twice and although i am so grateful for the daughter i had inbetween them, i still think about what they would have been like, how old they would be right now, how they wouldve enriched my life...i am currently 6wks pregnant again and truly, i have never been so scared.....you will never have a worry-free pregnancy after a miscarriage and sometimes i even feel bitter that God would allow us to go thru such emotional pain for no apparent reason....i dont feel as if any lesson was learned, i dont feel it made us any stronger or better people, it just made me more cynical, jaded and protective of my only living child......i am constantly paranoid that something might happen to her and that would surely kill me.....i encourgage you to keep doing anything that makes you feel like getting up in the morning and moving forward....again, i am so sorry for you and your husband's loss....just know that you are not alone and there are couples that feel the despare that you are feeling now....i will pray for you and for your emotional healing...i ask that you please do the same.... Toni Tyler Pocahontas, AR there are never any words that will help when something this senseless happens…i am so sorry for your loss…i have miscarried twice and although i am so grateful for the daughter i had inbetween them, i still think about what they would have been like, how old they would be right now, how they wouldve enriched my life…i am currently 6wks pregnant again and truly, i have never been so scared…..you will never have a worry-free pregnancy after a miscarriage and sometimes i even feel bitter that God would allow us to go thru such emotional pain for no apparent reason….i dont feel as if any lesson was learned, i dont feel it made us any stronger or better people, it just made me more cynical, jaded and protective of my only living child……i am constantly paranoid that something might happen to her and that would surely kill me…..i encourgage you to keep doing anything that makes you feel like getting up in the morning and moving forward….again, i am so sorry for you and your husband’s loss….just know that you are not alone and there are couples that feel the despare that you are feeling now….i will pray for you and for your emotional healing…i ask that you please do the same….
Toni Tyler
Pocahontas, AR

]]> By: Sandra http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-6 Sandra Tue, 15 May 2007 13:57:14 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-6 Reading your story has helped me a lot since no one has been able to tell me the exact words the words that my heart long for words like i understand you pain i've been there done that. Two weeks ago i lost my boy my sweet boy i was nine months pregnant and i was the most happiest woman on earth but when the dr told me that you baby heart has stopped beating i felt cold inside i felt so alone since than, but people kept on saying those words that irritate me like it better that it was a stillborn......... so to stop them i have hidden my feeling but God knows my pillow knows i cry every night i miss my baby so bad i see people with they infant babies i can't help myself. thanks for your site it real does give me hope that even thore my boy is so irreplaceable but there is still hope for me that some day i will be happy in this lifetime. Reading your story has helped me a lot since no one has been able to tell me the exact words the words that my heart long for words like i understand you pain i’ve been there done that. Two weeks ago i lost my boy my sweet boy i was nine months pregnant and i was the most happiest woman on earth but when the dr told me that you baby heart has stopped beating i felt cold inside i felt so alone since than, but people kept on saying those words that irritate me like it better that it was a stillborn……… so to stop them i have hidden my feeling but God knows my pillow knows i cry every night i miss my baby so bad i see people with they infant babies i can’t help myself. thanks for your site it real does give me hope that even thore my boy is so irreplaceable but there is still hope for me that some day i will be happy in this lifetime.

]]> By: Mira http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-5 Mira Sat, 10 Feb 2007 23:26:29 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-5 I found your site by chance,i was looking for someone who miscarried his baby just like me to give me some power to keep going, some responses i couldn't get from the people around me. i lost my first baby just yesterday at 6 weeks, since then i've been trying to stop crying or thinking about my little angle,but i can't ,really i can't ,my eyes are always full of tears to blow... i feel so sad ,no one can understand my pain..i keep thinking that few days ago i was overwhelmed and today am completely heartbroken. I'm still bleeding and having cramps..i do not know if i will have the strength to move on.. I found your site by chance,i was looking for someone who miscarried his baby just like me to give me some power to keep going, some responses i couldn’t get from the people around me. i lost my first baby just yesterday at 6 weeks, since then i’ve been trying to stop crying or thinking about my little angle,but i can’t ,really i can’t ,my eyes are always full of tears to blow… i feel so sad ,no one can understand my pain..i keep thinking that few days ago i was overwhelmed and today am completely heartbroken.
I’m still bleeding and having cramps..i do not know if i will have the strength to move on..

]]> By: caribbean_c http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-4 caribbean_c Sun, 10 Dec 2006 03:22:13 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-4 It was so touching to find your site… I was almost a mother; I lost my baby (first) on Sept 2 at 17 weeks. I’ve been trying to find answers, consolation, something. I’m tired of the shit responses i get of, ‘it was probably for the best’ or ‘don’t worry, you can try again soon’ and other such comments. dh is sad, but doesn’t talk about it, and i feel so alone. i’ve tried to move on, but i keep thinking of my baby boy. Is something wrong with me?!? i waited 3 years to try and this was my ‘gift’… people in my family thought i was faking; that i wasn’t having problems (the dr. put me on bedrest and some family members thought i was exaggerating what that meant) and how they say shit like, better now that a still born at 9 months. I admire your strength and hope i will be like you soon… remembering with no tears. It was so touching to find your site… I was almost a mother; I lost my baby (first) on Sept 2 at 17 weeks. I’ve been trying to find answers, consolation, something. I’m tired of the shit responses i get of, ‘it was probably for the best’ or ‘don’t worry, you can try again soon’ and other such comments. dh is sad, but doesn’t talk about it, and i feel so alone. i’ve tried to move on, but i keep thinking of my baby boy. Is something wrong with me?!? i waited 3 years to try and this was my ‘gift’… people in my family thought i was faking; that i wasn’t having problems (the dr. put me on bedrest and some family members thought i was exaggerating what that meant) and how they say shit like, better now that a still born at 9 months.
I admire your strength and hope i will be like you soon… remembering with no tears.

]]> By: Two years « SWEETISU http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-3 Two years « SWEETISU Thu, 26 Oct 2006 04:46:01 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-3 [...] This year, October 2nd came and went without any tears. I certainly have not forgotten my baby. Everyday when I look in the backyard over to the big cedar tree, I remember the sweetness of the tiny baby that was and could have been. I remember the burial day vividly. But the rawness of the pain is no longer intense and often absent as well. [...] [...] This year, October 2nd came and went without any tears. I certainly have not forgotten my baby. Everyday when I look in the backyard over to the big cedar tree, I remember the sweetness of the tiny baby that was and could have been. I remember the burial day vividly. But the rawness of the pain is no longer intense and often absent as well. [...]

]]> By: Karen http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-2 Karen Sun, 17 Oct 2004 22:29:00 +0000 http://www.sweetisu.com/2004/10/15/heartbroken/#comment-2 I'm SO, SO sorry. Sending your good thoughts from Houston, Karen@<a HREF="http://www.blogger.com/r?http%3A%2F%2Fchookooloonks.typepad.com" rel="nofollow">Chookooloonks</A>--> I’m SO, SO sorry.

Sending your good thoughts from Houston,

Karen@Chookooloonks–>

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